Getting feelings for someone else ...

So iv been with my husband for 7 years and honestly the past 2 years our relationship has deteriorated almost to the point I actually really don’t want to be with him anymore. We’ve both tried to work on it however he doesn’t think there’s much wrong. (I stay with him mainly for our daughter, breaking up would cause him to move back to where his family live which is a different country, I do love and care about him and don’t want to be the reason for them being apart )

ANYWAYS iv met this guy on my commute to work, we happened to get the same train at the same time together and we started talking ... completely innocent just friendly chit chat on the train, it’s been about 4 weeks since we met and he knows about my husband and little girl (he doesn’t know I’m not happy) he’s not asked me out or for my number or anything like that, we literally just chit chat about all sorts of random things for 40 minutes on our way to work - nothing romantic although I feel as tho theres a bit of a spark.

However, recently iv been feeling some type of way about this guy, I’m a decent person and no matter how much I wanted to I wouldn’t Persu anything whilst still being in a relationship - but honestly I can’t help the feelings. I always look forward to seeing him in the morning and I end up day dreaming about going out for drinks with him ect again I’m not going to act on these feelings!

I just don’t know what to do, even if I told him I couldn’t talk to him anymore or I got a different train it doesn’t take away the fact that I’m obviously not in love enough with my husband. I’m so confused and at a loss, I do love and care about my husband and I don’t want to hurt him and I don’t want to split my family but I’m really not happy at all 😩