relashionship drama

Laura

so I starrf daiting this guy I meet him about 8 years ago I liked him a lot back then but I was to shy to approach him and he thought I didn't like him . A couple years later we got back in touch since he moved . Things were good till he stated asking me on dates and would he would cancel. He has been messaging me for 2 years here and there so I decided to give him a chance again. Now he ask me all these things I dont fell comfortable doing . I want to tell him that I dont want to be havingHow should sex cause is just not me atm. How should I tell him this.