Successful side chick: Have you ever been the side and ultimately stayed and became his main?

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There is no such thing as a “successful side-chick”. Have some self-respect, and don’t contribute to any homewrecking.

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A side chick can become a main chick but then as a main chick can't act surprised when he starts getting side chicks again 😂 Does no one have any self respect ? Or respect for anyone else?

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if he cheats on his "main" he's gonna cheat on his "side chick." sorry honey, but you need a new day job. there is NOTHING to be proud of in being a "successful side chick"
please, find yourself a decent man. or better, don't be a dick.

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uhhhh hard pass, don't see what you gain in the end anyways... what goes around comes around

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I don’t understand how anyone can be alright knowing they’re a “side chick” SELF WORTH GIRLS

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Listen, nothing is truer than the saying ‘you’ll lose him the way you got him’ if you start out as a side chick, even if you end up being a girlfriend, he will likely get another side chick, if he’s willing to cheat WITH you, he’s likely willing to cheat ON you.

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Jesus! What the hell happened to women living and respecting themselves and other women! Or just having common decency in general!! The women who do this type of behavior, y’all need to go talk to your daddies and make y’alls relationship right and get yourself some dignity and respect! Yuck! How could you do that to another person? It’s so classless and trashy 🤦🏽‍♀️

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Sometimes they can end up being the “main chick”. But it’s probably heading towards another doomed relationship.

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I’m ashamed to say that Ive been the side-chick and ended up in a relationship with him in the end. But it’s doomed to fail. If he’s looking while he’s with someone and not man enough to end a relationship, he’ll do the same to you. Lesson learned. Never again. PS - it doesn’t matter what excuse he gives you. They’re going to slant it every way they can, give you every lie in the book. All of them are just his way of saying I want my cake and I want to eat it too.

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No I was always the main that got cheated on. One of the reasons I had to delete my FB bc dudes come back (even years later) "you were the best girlfriend" uhm duh thank you for stating the obv😂

Successful side chick: Have you ever been the side and ultimately stayed and became his main?

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