I’m needy

So in my relationship I was usually the one who would be completely fine with doing my own thing and not needing a whole lot of attention. My bf on the other hand wanted a lot of attention and you know there’d be times where he understood that I want some alone time.

However lately it’s been reversed I’ve been wanting a lot more attention where it’s just me and him...no phones or him being on his xbox and talking with friends.

I’ve expressed this but he doesn’t seem to get a grasp and I may not be explaining myself the right way or enough. So in the end I was just like whatever and he was whatever about it to and told me not to bring it up.

Now it’s just like what am I to do...I mean I know I can do things so spend my time but my mind always goes back to him and wanting his attention.

I need a hobby😅