ill go from the top.....me and my partner have 2 children 1 and 2 years old, theyre both october babies, i just found out im pregnant with baby no3 and due december 21st.......all smiles i was happy my partner was happy.....until we told his side of the family, shattering they are not happy, saying 1 will be left out and crap just to get back at us, how you gonna afford this or that and a new car aswel as dealing with the other 2, she couldnt even speak to me :( why are they such a total heartbreak, they didnt want me to have my second so close after my first but i was keeping her, i now feel a wreck