People judge me because of wealth, advice please.

Hey ladies! When I hit on my husband two years ago, I had no idea he was wealthy. All I knew was that he was in the military, a friend of the family since he was little and that I had been crushing on him since I was a kid..(he's 9 years older.). Well when I finally did find out, it didn't change anything for me, I still loved him the same etc, but people judge me now because of the opportunities he gives me. I just don't get it, I mean if we plan a vacay or whatever all I get from my so called friends is snobby comments insinuating I'm a f*cking gold digger. I really want to snap!!! I always try to keep things mature but I'm at my end, what would you do if your friends were acting like that? Tia, and I hope no one thinks I'm waving this in anyone's face, I'm not I swear :(