Baby shower

Ma

I’ve always been very independent. And I’ve heard I’m too independent for my own good (blame my hard working single mother) but I don’t want to register for gifts I don’t like asking ppl for things but I don’t want ppl to end up buying me the same thing. Should I just suck it up and register and what things should I register for?? It’s my first baby and it’s a boy I haven’t bought anything so far my baby shower will be June 3rd 😬