Cheating boyfriend

Hailee

Alright alright so I met this guy on tinder and damn things were going great! We were having BOMB sex and yenno talking to each other all the time and bein all cute n shit.

Sooo then after like a week of talking we were like ‘FUCK IT LETS DATE’ all was going great we would hang out and I was falling for him HARD.

Anyway the relationship was going AMAZING thennn I got a message from a girl asking is I was dating the guy on my Instagram profile. Of course I said yes I was dating him, she messaged me back and said ‘girl he’s cheating on you’ apparently he called her cute and stuff and I just didn’t think anything of it bc he was a a friendly guy. BUT THEN I got ANOTHER message from ANOTHER girl that claimed he was cheating.

So I confronted him and I was like heyyy sooo this girl says you’re cheating on me and like I juss wanna knowwww what the HELL is going on. He just like ‘oh yeah I’ve been friends with her for a while, she’s kinda crazy and she likes me and she’s probably trying to break us up bc she wants to date me still. Just ignore it.’ so I’m just like okay I brush it off and I keep going but I tell him ‘if I get another message I’m gonna see what they have to say and if I find out you lied WERE DONE’

Low and behold I receive another message a few days later from the same girl. She still says he’s cheating. I ask her about it and she goes ‘yeah I have proof’ at this point I’m like FUCK NO THIS CANT BE HAPPENING!

She sends me screen recordings of voicemails he sent her the day before this of him telling her that he loved her and that he missed her. Then this girl says ‘he’s been dating me for about a month now. and I’m like BITCH HES BEEN DATING ME FOR ABOUT A MONTH! THIS DUDE BEEN DATING MULTIPLE GIRLS!? WHO TF HE THINK HE IS!?

She then goes on to tell me the lies he told her and they’re the exact same lies he told me. “Oh she’s just crazy and wants to break us up, I don’t even talk to her, she’s just jealous, ignore her” LIKE OKAY TELL ME YOU LOVE ME THEN CALL ME CRAZY. THATS MY KINK!!! Anyway I confront him and he denies ALLL OFFF ITTTT even the voice mails. So we talk it out and come to the conclusion that we’re too important to each other to just break up. (DUMBEST THING IVE EVER DONE) we decide to try and work through it. We give each other rules and ultimatums. He gives me his social media passwords and whatnot and promised not to talk to anyone else anymore. So I think yeah everything’s great!

We start talking again and we’re a couple days into ‘making up’ and I find his “ex girlfriends” Twitter... she still uses her twitter bc I can see she recently tweeted and has HIS NAME and the day they started dating IN HER BIO. At this point I’m the TF DUDE. I bring it up to him he says they used to date but they broke up and she doesn’t use social media anymore. So I’m like okayyyy. (Dumbass) SO I log into his twitter and of course find messages between them that he forgot to delete... HES STILL DATING HER!! DATED TWO GIRLS WHILE DATING ME!!!

Before I say anything to him about it I try to log into his Snapchat and the PASSWORD IS CHANGED. I try his other password that he uses for literally everything, and of course it works. I get into his Snapchat just to find other girls nudes that he has just gotten that day and some MORE conversations he had about how good he’s gonna dick down these girls and I’m like... SO YOU DATE THREE GIRLS AT ONCE AND TALK ABOUT HAVING SEX WITH LIKE 10 MORE!?

After I found out all this TEA. I texted him and all I said was. ‘I’m not stupid, you’re trash, lose my number, don’t apologize to me, don’t call me, bye.’ And what happens? I get a phone call and all I hear is IM SORRY ILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN!! And I’m like hun that’s what you said last time

So I hang up on him. He tries calling me back, I block his number and all his social media, ‘ghost him’ if you will. And honestly I would wish that karmas a bitch to him but losing me is karma enough.

One good thing came out of this though. I now have a bomb ass bestie that is the girl that messaged me saying he was cheating. We get ice cream together and get over him TOGETHER. Weird when you dated the same guy at the same time and broke up at the same time do you have to get over him at the SAME TIME. But anyway that’s my story. I knew I should’ve listened to myself when I first got suspicious and shouldn’t have given him a second chance.