Never good enough

I try and try to make my SO happy but it never seems to be good enough... I try to do everything to please and pamper him and its never good enough.... does anyone else feel this way? Here is what just happened I made a salad with chicken and he wanted to heat it up in the damn microwave, I told him you cant put lettuce in the microwave it'll get wilted and gross, he got all mad and said I never let him do things his way that I always control him...all I was trying to do was make sure he eats good hot lettuce is gross but wtf ever ughhh