Cheating?

Hey ladies (and gents), this is probably going to be a long story..so apologies in advance.

Back in October, my boyfriend of 3 years was caught texting another girl. I expressed to him that I was not comfortable with him messaging other women (especially ones he had previous sexual relations with). He told me I was overreacting and couldn’t tell him who he could and couldn’t talk to. Keep in mind, Im pregnant during all of this. Well, things escalated and she got in between us.

I ended up leaving, and went back to NC where I am originally from, and she moved back into the house the day i left. Well, I got a call one day from him stating that he had went to jail under a false statement from the girl that came between us. He said he was done with her and that he has blocked her from everything, mainly due to his lawyer advising him to have no contact with her until after his court date.

Well, stupid me (wanting to work things out for the baby), came back at the end of November and things have been going great since. He hasn’t texted any other person besides his guy friends and family.

Yesterday, he was showing me a picture on his phone, and my finger accidentally hit his messenger button (he has the galaxy phone, so the button just hovers at the top of the screen), and I saw where he had messaged another girl (that he stated he had previous relations with) “just let me know when you’re in town”. I confronted him about it and he said it was to just get her to stop messaging him. I was obviously was upset and he said I couldnt tell him who he could/couldn’t talk to. Sound familiar?? Yeah.

Well, while he was at work today, I decided to go to his computer and get on his Facebook just to see how the conversation was going, since he said it was innocent. She’s messaging him about how she misses him, and if he remembered when they had sex and how he fingered her, how much he would like to do it again, and how the dad life is going (so she knows I’m pregnant and we are together). He said it sucks, and that I’m just a nagging pregnant woman he lives with. She said I was just using him, and he agreed, but that he couldn’t do anything about it until the baby is weaned from breastfeeding. She then asked if he could just get one night away, and he said that probably wouldn’t be possible any time soon, since I’m due in 6 weeks. Meanwhile, he is going through and deleting the messages because they disappear each time I check for new information, but I did screenshot them just as backup proof.

Am I overreacting, or should I confront him about this and cause a big fight? I’ve already talked to his mom about it because I didnt know who else to talk to. I just don’t want this to end up being the same way it was before.