Rough(er) sex advice anyone?

Question

So I want my DH to be a little rougher wth me in bed (holding my hands above my head, etc) but he's really not that type of person, he's more of a slow lover. I don't know how to tell him what I want cuz I'm afraid he'll be scared or something cuz I'm not usually one to be rough. Any advice?

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I explained to my DH before we had sex that I enjoy rough sex BUT we need to have gentle sex before hand. Basically work our way up there. When I became more comfortable I began to show him what I liked (choking, slaps, spanking, telling me exactly what to do). Now he's a pro and does things that I didn't even knew I liked.

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I understand what u mean. my husband and I enjoy this type of play too. You have to talk to him. excite him by showing him. take him to the adult store look at bondage stuff and learn together

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First, I would let him know. Be open or you'll never be happy :) put his hands above his head while you're on top. Or while on bottom, grab his hand(s) and move yours above your head. But definitely let him know you want to try it :)

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Just talk to him about it. My boyfriend was the same way and now he is into everything I'm into. It's wonderful :)

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the way I let my nd know was talking dirty to him on the phone telling him that he could do whatever he wanted to me then gave examples such as bite, handcuff, blindfold and it worked

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my bf last night restrained my hands and feet and blindfolded me and used a whip I did the same to him its soooo much fun.

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Took my boyfriend a while before he would choke me. But I would start with restraints and a blindfold. Tie him down, blindfold him then do what ever you like.

Rough(er) sex advice anyone?

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