I know I could get a lot of hate for making that statement which is why I made it anonymous. These are my personal feelings that I hide away to myself because it's terrible for feeling this way, no one, not my husband, not my mother, sister, best friend, family, no one knows this. He's 6 and if he only came to visit on the weekends and then went back to his mom, I might could enjoy his company. But he lives with us and I'm a major factor in him doing so, his mother isn't the best mother figure, I mean even on her two days off work, she might get him one day and bring him back the next or take him to his grandmother till time for him to come home. When I met his father, he was 3 and beyond spoiled and babied. Around my mother in law he is still allowed to talk like a baby, sleeps with her, can eat whatever he wants and can make messes expecting her to clean up after him. Another thing is he thinks that because he says stupid words or crazy phrases, or just gibberish, I'm supposed to laugh at him because his granny laughs at everything he does, its not cute, he's not a baby and it's not funny. Now my main problem with him is he believes he can act like this because everyone in his life let's him except me. So we have major fights weekly because he acts like a baby, or won't clean up after himself and I just can't stand it. I know it's wrong to feel this way because I do care about him, I rather him live with us than anyone else. Any suggestions on how I should get over this, or at least make it tolerable for the next 12 years?