Keeping that punani in check😂🤪

So I am really prone to ingrown hairs when I shave my vagina. I’ve tried the side ways shaving trick, the aloe afterwards, the baby oil, it seems like everything, but I’m always getting something. Sometimes lll get really bad ingrown hairs where it turns a dime sized part purple or and almost feels like a pimple that’s under your skin and it hurts hella bad sometimes. I need some other ways or suggestions to help a girl out cause being a hormonal 17 year old ya know I wanna keep my kitty cat nice🤪 thaaannkkksss💓💓