Anal?

Question

so my boyfriend's wants to try anal when we get married he wants to start off with just fingure and no toys!!

I wanna try a small butt plug so I can at least get used to it but I wanna know how else I can prepare to get a dick in my butt - do I eat or drink something to clear my insides do I need condoms I know I need lots a lube but I'm not sure how else to prepare

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1. Before you do do anything make sure you use the bathroom and go for a shower to make sure everything is clean, ya know? that's usually enough and most stop there but you could take it a step further and use an enema. TBH though, he's sticking is pole in when it's only really used to having stuff come out so don't be embarrassed or surprised if it gets messy. You've got to prepare for stuff like this to happen so it's not such a big deal if things don't go to plan.

2. Make sure you really want to and you're not just doing it for him. You've got to be mentally prepared first and take care of yourself.

3. USE HEAPS OF LUBE!!!  and make sure it's actual lube not just spit because butts aren't self lubricating like vagina's and you will contract, it's a natural reaction

4. Relax, enjoy yourself and keep in mind that it will hurt. People who say "it shouldn't hurt" are talking nonsense because as I've stated before, butts don't usually have this happen. I'm a bit masochistic and I think you've got to be at least somewhat okay with the pain. Pleasuring him is terrific but when it comes down to it, you're still having sex with him. After a little bit it gets a lot easier, it's one of those things that is stupid at first but once you're into it you start to like certain parts of it.

Everyone's different but you'll make your own experiences if you decide to try it and once you do, you won't be guessing. Life's full of these things. 😊 Happy Analing!

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It’s great. Use a condom. Do some fingering and licking first. Use lube. Do not do it in the doggy style position❗️ lay down on your stomach and have him rub on your clit. Go slow. If you are gassy don’t do it lol.

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yes use condoms because its cleaner and your fecal matter and bacteria can get into his urethra. thats a good way to transmit bacteria in places you dont want it to. other than that, researching the Internet will give you many in depth articles about how to do it safely. on an app like this, chances are that youre not going to get very in depth answers and it can be dangerous to go into anal sex not knowing what to do or missing useful information

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I’ve found that foreplay first kinda helps to relax.. lube OBVIOUSLY and honestly hubby and I have tried diff positions but my favorite is when he lays me flat on my back, no pillow under my head or anything, missionary and puts it in slowly that way. Less contracting and a lot less painful for sure. A lot more fun for me.

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use tons of lube! and condoms are good if he doesn't want crap on his dick, and I suggest you get turned on first. ANAL sucks in my opinion I tried it once and that was just enough lol

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Definitely get a butt plug. It helps to put the plug in before you have sex then of course you would foreplay and do your thing and then take the plug out when your ready for anal. Usually what we do is I would put the plug in, my husband plays with me and makes me cum, then we will do penetration with his dick and/or dildo then when my husband is ready to cum then we go for the butt. If you are really relaxed it shouldn’t really hurt. I mean it’s uncomfortable but shouldn’t be painful.

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Just be very slow and very gradual. You will tense up from pain but if he holds still your body will relax and he can go deeper. It gets to the point after a few minutes of feeling like a massive poop. Thank god my man now doesn’t want that cause I’m just so not okay with it lol

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Best advice is to, for both of you to fast because when you do that you’re already detoxing the harsh toxins out of your bodies by eating natural things like fruits and vegetables; water etc. Good luck!

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make sure when he's about to put it in you very gently push out, don't try to fart or anything like to go crazy, I mean very very gently. just a little more than relaxed. this will make penetration a LOT easier on you

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