friend circle and my bf..

Jennifer

hello.. so basically Iam from India, and according to indian culture having boyfriend is a big shame. but the problem is with my friend circle they all are either single or engaged with the person their parents choose for them and I have a bf we are together frm past 3 years and none of my friends know about it. its really difficult to confess, they have some doubt but they are not sure, i afraid if I confess then they will treat me bad. what should I do???