break up.

Hey ladies, so I think it's fair to say that we've all had our fair share of break ups? Not just with lovers but with friends and family. Which is worse? I'm 24 and have just lost someone who I thought was my best friend, she hasn't passed away or moved country. No I realised that she was toxic and the complete opposite of what a best friend /sister should be. If you ever asked me about my best friend I would have told you she's great, supportive, caring and a good person but what I came to realise is that she only supported things that would ultimately hurt me. Boyfriend being dumb? He's cheating, treats you like shit, leave him your better without him. Bad day at new job? Just leave, your clearly not happy, the people are so mean. Didn't call her day after a night out with new friends (she was invited) I get a text calling me fake, cunt, coward because I let her down? etc. She's my best friend and I believed every word like it was my own. No encouragement or positive support. I'm hurting but the thought of having the right support in my life is getting me through. If anyone else is going through a friendship breakup it's okay to grow away from people, just stay true to who you are, be honest with yourself and those around you. Xx