Not going to be a lucky 1st month girl

Elisa • TTC baby #2! 🤞🏼 33, married, 1 baby 🩵 via IVF after 5 years infertility!

So I knew the chances where slim for me this month. It’s our first month ttc and first month off bc. But my husband was still optimistic because many of our friends conceived pretty quickly.

I’m not officially out until af shows, I know. But, I’ve been testing everyday this week and I’m now 11 dpo and not even a hint of a faint line.

If I stay regular from bc, I’m due for af on Sunday or Monday. I was always regular before bc, but that was almost 10 years ago.

I know it’s just my first month and I probably have a long road ahead, but I’m still kinda bummed.

183 views • 1 upvote • 6 comments

COMMENT (6)

Ap

Posted at
took about 3 months for me.

Je

Posted at
Same boat! First month off the pill and first month “trying”. AF should show today if my cycle stays as it was when I was on the bcp. Tested this morning. BFN. Saw the doc yesterday for preconception check up. She says I could ovulate later. Here’s hoping. Hard not knowing if/when ovulation was. I havent done temp checks etc...just going off nature. Good luck!

Je

Jessica • Apr 25, 2018
Have you had any withdrawal bleeding or spotting? I keep seeing ladies post about having it the first month after going off. I haven’t had the slightest drop. AF still hasn’t shown today as would be my normal on bc.

El

Elisa • Apr 24, 2018
Yeah I’m not temping or opks either. Hubby and I agreed to try to just relax/have fun with it. I tested again today because I was officially late yesterday. Today is cycle day 30 for me. And I’m feeling like I’m about to start. I think this is how long my cycles were before bc so I guess it’s good that I’m regulating pretty fast after bc. Hopefully it stays that way.

Na

Posted at
Samesies!! My first month ttc after coming off bc last month. Today is CD 30, but no AF.

Na

Natausha • Apr 24, 2018
I tried to track BBT this month, just for curiosity. But mine was all over the place.