I need a friend. And I’ve read about a thousand of these posts but I am in a stable relationship that no longer feels stable. He is headed to Cuba in July and he is pulling out his “dominant” side. Something he claims he “put away after the last deployment”. I’m angry with how he’s suddenly treating me and hurt that he’s choosing to change things now, and there are so so many changes I am trying to cope with. I am an anxious/depressive/borderline personality person. I fight it all every day, and it feels like him being away at annual training ( 3 straight weeks of straight army and he’s already been gone for two) has caused him to forget about... well... me. I could really use some friends, no one seems to have the time for me anymore. :(