Soo the last few weeks I’ve had no energy whatsoever in the mornings + nausea. I’m a teacher and 9weeks. I don’t do my hair and makeup the same, I don’t dress the same, I know I’ve gained weight so I don’t look the same. You can just tell I’m drained especially with the lack of makeup and hair. Someone asked me today, “If I had something to share.” When I said no, it was a “are you sure?” Literally got so annoyed, so I admitted it out despite wanting to keep this a secret until after 12 weeks. I just don’t want to risk telling my students (or them finding out) because if I have a miscarriage I’ll have to explain that to my students and I just don’t think I would be able to explain it without getting emotional. What do you do when someone asks? Do you lie? Or admit it? Side note: havent told all of the important people in my life either. So there is fear of it getting it out. I hate lying but I hate that she even asked. She’s a sweet old thing, I just felt bad lying to her.