Tonight, my SO & I went to a concert. Drunk a bit too much. Had the times of our lives!! Usually, when things like this happen (concerts, any outing) we end up arguing.. especially with him drinking. Tonight, I thought would be different. Soo, we were talking to all kinds of people. He talked to a few females & I had absolutely no problem with that. EXCEPT.. supposedly when I went to the restroom, he hit this one chick in the head. As we were leaving the arena, he stopped on their row & whispered something to her then her friend. Ok, cool. (I did not know he accidentally hit her). Maybe he was telling them it was nice talking to them? Idk. Anyway, our friends come over & we’re all talking. These two girls are trying to leave & my SO goes OUT OF HIS WAY. Makes his way out of our group convo & just stands in front of this chick for at least 5-10 seconds not moving. Then whispers something in her ear & moves. She looked as if she were uncomfortable. He moves & they walk off laughing. While this was happening, I looked at his friend & was like wtf is he doing? His response is “trying to pick up random chicks”. So when he steps back over, I said wtf was that? He goes on to tell me he hit her in the head. Ok.... so it took you TWICE to apologize? The second time you just HAD to go out of your way & do it? Sooo, we get in the car. He’s trying to tell me a story & I’m just like ok. He goes on & asks why I’m mad. My response was: I do not care if you talk to other females. Do whatever you want. BUT it’s the way you approached her. You went OUT of your way to do it. You didn’t have to tell her sorry twice. You could’ve told her the first time.

HERE’S WHERE IT GETS INTERESTING: so he goes on to say that IF he were going to cheat or sleep with someone, I would never find out about it. He said this at least 5-10 times. By this time, I’m like good for you 👏🏼 great job. What pushed me to the point where I didn’t give a fuck anymore was he said: I’ve been doing this shit for way too long. I started clapping & said thank you for showing me you’re a POS. Probably not what I should’ve said, but our relationship is not the greatest at the moment. But who tf says that? Sooo, he kicked me out the car.

So my question is, do you think I was wrong for getting mad? He says I’m being insecure, BUT if the roles were reversed, I’d NEVER live it down.

**I want to add that I don’t think he meant he’s been cheating on me for way too long. He was saying in other relationships, but now this makes me question ours.