So my boyfriend wants to start a wholesaling business. I love the idea and I’d like to be apart of it.... but it requires us to stay where we live a little longer... like years longer while it gets established. and I was just accepted to a school out west. He knows I don’t like the city we live in and occasionally agrees that it’s easy to be stuck and complacent here. We argue a lot because I’m confused about what he actually wants (his family is here and he’s never been away from home) and what he is maybe afraid to do? All I know is I can’t stay here. He thinks if our living situation changed, I could bare the city a little more but there really aren’t any good places to live. The apartments are run down and in bad areas and I would like to quit my job and find something better. I’m not sure what to do. I love him to death, I want us to be together and start a family but I don’t think we’re on the same page. Should I break up with him so I can go to school? Should I stick it out with him? Should we do long distance?