Hey ladies! I wanted to ask your tips/opinions on getting the juices flowing (if ya know what i mean)

My husband and i have been using KY liquid since before we were married because I can't ever seem to get wet enough. No matter how long we play around or what we do, it's just not enough. When we were first together we did it a few times without it but soon after i turned into a desert, and we have been using KY since. There's been a few occasions where we havent but not all that often.

Tips? Tricks?

*please no rude comments saying "you need to be more relaxed and more comfortable" he's my husband, of course I am comfortable!! It's just my body*