Is it normal or okay to cum during sex but not orgasm. I have sex with my bf almost every night for over a year but I’ve only felt an orgasm once. Same with my ex’s. I can cum but I never once felt an orgasm with them. But when I masturbate I can very easily orgasm and cum together. I also noticed that if there’s penetration then I don’t have an orgasm but when it comes to clit stimulation, I do. Is this normal? Does anyone else experience the same?

The sex with my boyfriend is great. And pretty healthy in my opinion. So it’s not like I’m dissatisfied.