My boyfriend and I are close to 6 months and there’s a few things I just wanted an outside opinion on.

Side note, my boyfriend has ADHD which may affect some of this.

Both him and I have a tendency to make each other mad on purpose or argue/blow up briefly before getting over it soon after. We’ve never really had a serious argument and a lot of the time we make each other mad over silly stuff. Like he’ll say I’m trash at a video game and keep poking fun at me. Or he’ll make a joke about me being a bad girlfriend and i’ll say “oh really?” and he’ll be like “no baby” in a really small voice.

I find it kind of fun to some extent and if we cross a line, usually we talk about it and neither of us are afraid to apologize. It’s just nice that we don’t have to walk on egg shells and that we’re comfortable enough to bicker and argue. I don’t take any of the arguments we get into seriously since they’re usually pretty trivial, but I’m worried maybe fostering a relationship in that kind of environment might cause problems later on? Like will some kind of resentment form? Will it make having a future together difficult?

The second thing is that we make jokes about breaking up alot. Like “i’ll break up with you if you do xyz” (we obviously never go through with it and if I push it, I know its a joke because he’ll be like “no baby don’t”). We both have kind of agreed that we need to stop this specific thing bc its not healthy, but this isn’t the first time. Idk if any other couples do this?

idk if this is just toxic on our part or we’re comfortable in our relationship.