Please help

Rosa

I’m losing my mind and don’t know what to do. My son is almost 2 so footies aren’t going to fit him. I’ve tried putting him in rompers so he can’t take his clothes off because he takes his diaper off all day long and every single nap and bed time leaving him and his bed soaked in urine when I get him after he wakes up. Now he reaches into the romper to take his diaper off!! He’s not ready for potty training especially since he still pees rivers in his sleep. Husband is cheap and refuses to get a video monitor and my son will not sleep unless the door is closed not like it would matter, he would keep taking it off before falling asleep. Im so sick of cleaning everything and changing/washing bedsheets and especially when it’s poo it’s a NIGHTMARE. I have to keep my eyes on him 24/7 or he will poo and get it everywhere in his playroom. I can’t get a moment to myself and his little sister is due in July idk what I’m going to do! Has anyone dealt with this and was there a solution?? Any type of clothing they can’t get around or take off?! I’m about to cry it’s been weeks of this 😭