Staying positive with so many negative tests


I’m struggling to stay positive and patient after 10 months of ttc only to be disappointed month after month. We’ve tried ovulation tests, tracking bbt, being intimate every day and every other day, preseed, some months tracking and others trying not to think about it. We got pregnant without trying two years ago and miscarried at 9 weeks. Every pregnancy announcement feels like a shot to the heart. Any and all suggestions are welcome. I’m feeling broken.