Virginity

I'm 18 now and still haven't lost my V card yet. I feel like everyone in society today is really sexual (and that's fine for them) but it makes me feel somehow inadequate with guys now. Cause I fear they won't want to date me because of that fact cause they'll want sex right away I'm sorta nervous to do it right away cause it would be my first time but I also don't want them to just fetishize me for it either. Any advice for this? Cause ill be starting college soon and will want to at least be able to date.