I have to schedule my whole life around him and my son everything works to his benefit. If I want to do something it's based on his schedule. I wanted to paint but couldn't because he was tired and he was going to bed so he needs the light off. i had a headache but he kept bossing me to check on our son. after the third time I snapped at him and told him to do it himself if ur so worried. he said he could because his arm was hurting him. I just feel like my needs always come last I wish somebody would put me first for once. I want to stop giving a damn so much sometimes.