last night we told my husbands aunt and uncle and his grandparents. They were very happy for us. then we started talking about different things about pregnancy. his grandmother looks at me and and says "the one piece of advice I'm going to give you since I worked with obs for 25 years is to not gain weight during your pregnancy. I mean since your already heavy it won't be good for you" EXCUSE ME!!!!!! I just sat there and didn't know what to say. I instantly felt like crying. I just said ok and looked at my husband who just looked at me with the most I'm sorry for what she just said look. cried in the car on the way home. look I know I'm not the skinniest girl out there. But I am already feeling not myself (thanks hormones) and I'm really bloated so what she said just really got to me. Rant over. sorry ladies