Would you be mad

Last night I wanted to have sex with my SO so I started touching him of course, he got super hard and was into it. He started kissing me neck which I love, it was a turn on. Then he kept my hand away.. turned on his stomach and I was left like “wth just happens”? I asked him “I thought u wanted to”?? He said no babe not today. Which I understood he has to get up 5am and it was already 2am and he didn’t get no sleep but I felt like shit him going for it and then just turned away.

COMMENT (10)

Posted at Sun, Apr 22 2018

I wouldn't be mad lol... he has a right to not want to have sex. don't take it so hard, it's not that deep.

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Posted at Sun, Apr 22 2018

#sexisntaright

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Posted at Sun, Apr 22 2018

I wouldn't be mad at all.. you answered it yourself, he had reasons. Even if he didn't, he can change his mind and say no. Don't overthink it.

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Posted at Sun, Apr 22 2018

Not at all. I’d be frustrated but not angry. I’ve gotten caught up in the moment before realising that I don’t want to/am too tired/whatever, and it’s a bummer for sure but everyone is allowed to change their mind. Also, would you have been mad if he flat out just said “I don’t want to” and stayed facing away from you when you started touching him? Cause maybe he didn’t want to be cold like that.

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Posted at Sun, Apr 22 2018

I would be frustrated but not mad. It’s weird he did that though.

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Posted at Sun, Apr 22 2018

I wouldn’t be angry or frustrated. Sometimes people just don’t want to have sex. Even if they start something, they can change their mind and that’s absolutely okay.

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Posted at Sun, Apr 22 2018

No...I would respect his lack of consent and go to sleep. Being mad about this is very rape-y

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Posted at Sun, Apr 22 2018

You guys are amazing