Relationship advice

So i been with my man for about a year now. we’ve really bonded he’s become my bestfriend and i absolutely adore and love him, yes we fight yes we always get over it. but this time it felt a little different. prior i was feeling disconnected from him for 3 days, so the fight happened bc i went and got my nails, toes, facial, new bra and panties, new skin stuff did my hair and makeup to you know, everybody likes to get a sexy for their man every now and then. but that day he decided to hang out with his boys instead of seeing me. (mind you we’ve never spent a weekend apart i sleep at his house every weekend.) it just really bothered me i diddnt see him and i feel like he put them first, i put all that effort and money in to looking good for him and wanted to make a special night for us. now we made up, but i just feel so disconnected from him.. what do i do