Wish I did stuff with mom

I’m a tomboy. I feel bad. I feel bad cause I never got to do all those girly type of things with my mom growing up. Like I hated makeup cause I felt like I was hiding me, I hated my hair cause it made me uncomfortable, and I hated girl clothes cause I felt uncomfortable. Now I’m 16 still a tomboy, lesbian, and I went through a long hair journey- first all just short, then buzzed at the sides with bangs, then bangs trimmed short, then eventually here we are now with a buzzcut. I just wish I was comfortable to do all the things I see other daughters do with their moms. Mind you my mom says it’s totally ok and she said if I love myself that’s all that matters. Just ahgggg I love my mommmmm