so my fiance works out of town we have a baby and I'm pregnant he was home Saturday night didn't spend anytime with me came home at bedtime after fishing with his uncle all night and promised that Sunday was our time Sunday he decided to go fishing that morning he'd be home by 2 at the latest 2 ,3,4,5,6,7 roll around I get upset bc hr has to leave in an hour and I haven't even seen him so when he texted fish at 6 I finally reply with a thumbs up he calls me cussing me for giving him the finger I hang up on him bc he does this a lot well I text him he calls back but decides he is having fun with his uncle he doesn't have work the next day after all and he's gonna spend the evening with him he needs to relax he's upset (I am home with our son all the time alone I tell him this he says he will be home) shows up at 12am his dad dropped him off he got a flat tire he comes in and sits on our bed staring at the floor looking like something is wrong says I need to tell you something I go over he only tells me his dad brought him home then continues to stare I thought he was gonna say something else he sure looked like it but never did he showered for a hour and passed out in the bathroom til about 4 am then comes to bed and kisses me he rarely does this before bed usually I have to kiss him next day he tells me his uncle and him got into a fight bc his uncle tried to cuthim off told him he had to much and then tried to take his keys he said he left his uncle at the bar and drove home his uncle called the cops on him they didn't get him luckily but anyhow it started to bug me why his uncle would say this he has history of wrongs so that's where my mind went so I calmly ask later why his uncle thought he had to much he said he was mad bc the bartender was flirting with him and I left it go I said they have to be friendly it is their job but then later he tells me her name and how they were talking and she lives in the town my sister does he told me he could taste yager I said is that what you were drinking he said yea and a bunch of stuff he said she had him drink a lemon drop with her and it was good apparently she asked him to buy her one he did! I flipped out I said did you even think to tell her you have a preg fiancee at home he got piss and said I was being crazy I said no you don't buy other girls drinks when your with someone! later he tries to talk to me again I am still very upset and he doesn't understand I said if I did that you'd be pissed and he said why don't I take my ex back I asked why he doesn't go back to his then he said something I can't rem and I said something about why doesn't he just go find someone else since he keeps trying too and he punched his steering wheel and said he could smash my face was cussing me I said I just want to not have to worry everytime he leaves I want to be able to trust him later that day before he leaves for work he says he spent $240 on alcohol that night ! I was pissed I told him that's crazy and he got all defensive and. couldn't figure out why I was so upset I said that's a lot ofmoney hetried to say that's what most people spend when they go out Its his money blah blah I said I don't see the point in that how that's fun he flipped out some more point is should I be upset? should I trust him? should he be buying drinks? should the bartender of asked for a drink maybe she was flirting?