I have a guy friend that I haven’t seen in a while but we keep in touch still. He’s always on my mind and I know I have feelings for him, even though sometimes I don’t know if we are right for each other in that way. I keep having dreams about him, which only makes me think about him even more. I’m very shy and even though we’re friends, I don’t even know where to begin what to message him. I feel like hey how have you been wouldn’t lead to much of a conversation. I hate having to be the one to message first. I always think that if he wanted to talk to me more, he would make the move. Any ideas on what I should say or thoughts on the situation in general? I feel like I should take the risk but I don’t know it’s so unlike me.