I'm sooo split. Help meeee

So

My hair journey hasn't been super varied. It basically goes like this:

For almost my whole life, I had it super long and blondish because I got highlights in it.

A few years ago, I decided I wanted a change so I cut it relatively short. I LOVED it.

Around this time I also decided to let my natural hair color grow out because it had been years since I'd seen it and for some reason, it just felt weird that I didn't even remember what I looked like with it natural. My hair started getting long again and it actually looked like I had an ombré situation going on while my roots grew wayyy out.

I was actually going to let it keep growing but I couldn't help myself and I cut it short again. And this time shorter than the time before. It was short enough that I basically removed all of the colored hair and I was l left with my completely natural hair color. I actually wasn't as big a fan of my short hair this time around because the lady gave me layers even though I told her multiple times that I HATE layers 🙄😭 so I kind of felt like I looked like a boy sometimes but hey whatever. I made it work the best I could.

And now...I'm very split. Part of me wants to grow my hair out looong again because I've never seen myself that way and I really wanna see myself with long, dark hair.

Another part though wants to chop it all off again because I just feel SO cute with short hair. Of course this time I'll make damn sure that I get a nice choppy cut instead of one with layers 😑 (kind of like this?)

Aaaand another part wants to change my hair color. Maybe back to blonde? But I've been there, done that so I was thinking a copper shade. I don't know if I can pull that off though...(I edited a pic of me to get an idea of what I might look like)

I'm also open to a combination of one of these options. Like dye AND cut it. Or dye it but let it grow out.

ORRRR maybe get bangs? Although probably not because they're gonna definitely make me look younger and I already have a major baby face 😒😔

Okay so as you can see, I'm pretty open to options. I'd like to hear your input!! Even another option that I didn't list 😊😊