24 weeks just look fat :(

I know it's not about how you look it's about the baby being healthy and she is and I'm extremely grateful for that but I'm 24 weeks pregnant. I've gained about 13lbs in total but I seemed to of gained it in all the wrong places! I've always been a size 10-12 UK and still. I've been keeping an eye on my calorie intake and making sure eat all the right foods but I just seem to have excess chub everywhere that jiggles when I move. I expected a nice firm bump by now. I feel very unattractive. My partner works away and is due home in a few weeks and I'm dreading him seeing me. This probably sounds very silly and hormonal but I can't help but get upset over it at the minute!