Boyfriend bringing up old shit.

Okay, so I need advice. Two years ago, my boyfriend (for the sake of this posting, we’ll call him Bob) and I took a break, and in this time I hooked up with another guy (we’ll call him Jim). Now to preface this, I was still talking to Bob while I was hooking up with Jim as I didn’t want Bob to hurt himself. So dumb, I know. Anyway, Bob found out about Jim after the fact, but decided to forgive me, and we ended up getting back together. However, two years later (it’ll be 2 years in September since Bob found out about Jim) he still brings it up. To the point that I was getting ready for work this morning while he was screaming at me, calling me out of my name, and making me feel like complete shit. This fight started because I didn’t want to have sex with him this morning.

My thing is, you either forgive me and we move on together, or you don’t and we go our separate ways.

When is enough enough? What do I do?!

Oh, to complicate things even more, we just signed a two year lease at a new house on Thursday the 12th. So there’s that too.