It feels like he’s trying to buy me?

I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for a little over six months, and I feel bought. He’s rich, he’s by no means a millionaire or anything, but he does have A LOT of money. I grew up super poor, so I’ve always been taught to value every cent BUT I never take money I didn’t truly earn. When we first began dating, he tried to use money as a way to win me over, but I’d just end up feeling super guilty. I honestly just don’t like people spending large amounts on me. Anyway, money has become his solution to EVERYTHING. If I miss my mom, he buys a plane ticket. If we get into a fight he’ll try to buy me clothes, or just give me “I’m sorry money”. If I give a mindless joke about living in the city being too expensive, he’ll pay my rent. He’s incapable of having a decent human conversation or interaction without feeling like he needs to buy me. I don’t think he even understands it’s wrong, he just thinks that’s the way the world works. I keep telling him I don’t want money and I just want him, but then he thinks I’m upset and tries to give me MORE FREAKING MONEY like ???? Other than the money issue, he can be a bit controlling and again the communication skills are that of a five year old, but admittedly he’s really a great guy who’s trying to work on it. Any advice on how to make things work, or get it through his mind that money doesn’t solve everything and he can’t just buy me? I could really use it, thank you!

Side note: I know it’s kinda like lmao so what’s the issue? But money, regardless of taking it or not, gets old fast when you can’t talk about genuine issues or when he refuses to feel anything uncomfortable or real between us.