My husband is literally...THE BEST! 😍😍

This might be a long post but I promise it’s a good one.

Tuesday I was diagnosed with genital herpes. I know it’s not that big of a deal but what has come of it with my husband IS A BIG DEAL! 😍

I had a relationship about three years ago where the guy would disappear for weeks to go to festivals with his “buddies” and get high on drugs and get drunk. I don’t have any definitive proof but I’m sure that he was sleeping around. I’m 100% sure that’s where I got it from.

This all happened THREE years ago. I had no idea that I even had this until I got a really bad outbreak of it recently and went to the doctors about it. But on top of all this I got my cycle (which was making things hard to heal) and I have sun poisoning (which has been hell on earth).

Then in swoops in my husband. Who from the start has been wonderful. Telling me that he still loves me no matter what and being really supportive. I felt gross, dirty, and contaminated but my husband just kept telling me that he will love me no matter what...in sickness and in health (we take our vows very seriously).

Every night before we go to bed he puts aloe and coconut oil on my sunburn after he’s been up and working for well over 12 hrs (he commutes over an hour one way to work). He doesn’t have to but he does and he does it with a great big smile on his face because he gets to take care of his wife.

He has also been wonderful and has helped me heal my sores on my “lady bits” or “nibbly bits” as he calls them.

I am also sure that this same guy from my relationship three years ago gave me HPV which has caused some other concerns but haven’t been confirmed yet.

So ladies if you suspect he’s cheating on you...get yourself tested even if you think you don’t have anything.

Also, find yourself a man that’s willing to “go down there” and help out when things aren’t quite as healthy as they should be and you can’t do it yourself.

I have been truly blessed with a loving and caring man.