if someone stole something from you would you steal it back???

lol no matter how little it is!!! (soap, socks,hair products, lotion,brushes and combs, body sprays!) let's say you're living with someone and they take stuff from you all the time like you won't notice. and you take it back without them knowing to keep conflict down I guess😒😤😡 but honestly idc if they noticed I took it back!!!!! my thing is they actually go through my drawers, clothes, bags, and cabinets to take my things this has gone on a long time. i have mentioned this to my boyfriwnd and he doesnt say anything! it's his mom!!!