Help me

So my boyfriend told me I only hear things that interest me more and that I don't hear things about him and it makes me feel bad. Both of my parents are deaf and because of that I'm hard of hearing and I also have ADHD, so I have a hard time focusing on what he's saying if I'm thinking or I'm out in a noisy environment. I usually hear things that are things like baby or my name then I sometimes hear what someone is speaking. I want to ask him about a what time is a movie but I'm afraid BC I don't want him to think that I only care about the movie.