What does it mean?

When your friend is in a shitty situation and constantly complains about it and you offer to help with no strings attached

But they completely ignore you or refuse

🤷‍♀️ idk why she’s complaining to me when she does nothing to change things that are so easily changeable

She could do it herself easily, but won’t so I offer to help even in the smallest way and it’s just ignored.

I don’t know what she wants me to do. It’s miserable being around someone who’s miserable and complaining about it.

No she is not in danger. No, not in an abusive situation either. There’s nothing really wrong other than just simple normal life goals that she needs to reach and hasn’t. If she could just reach a few goals she could get herself out of said situation BUT WONT DO IT.

I feel like a shitty friend if I offer nothing. I feel like a shitty friend when I do offer something.

It’s just exhausting

At this point i feel like she likes being in said situation.