So lately I’ve been exploring my sexuality after years of curiosity and finally flipped my tinder gender search to “female” (Typical, I know, lol). I swiped right and matched with this girl and we had a nice vibe. She had explained to me that she was looking for a someone to have “fun” with her and her boyfriend. It wasn’t really what I was searching for, but I was like “Why not?”🤷🏾‍♀️ Nothing is wrong with them at all, it’s just the girl is kind of shy (I think?). When we first started talking, it was her actually her boyfriend talking for her, lol. But I did talk to her personally, she’s nice, but she doesn’t seem so interested in it or she’s really shy. Her boyfriend told me that it’s not their first time doing a threesome. I’ve FaceTimed them both and hung out with the boyfriend (he’s really cool). So basically my question is:

What can I do to make her more comfortable with me? I offered to take her out so we could get to know each other and just chill. (She hasn’t responded yet)

What kind of positions or toys could I bring or offer to bring to spice things up? Or any suggestions?

Sorry to be so awkward or extra about it, its my first time doing something like this and I just want to make it enjoyable on both sides.