TTC soon

hi everyone so I'm so excited there is a same sex group because I have no idea what I'm doing lol. I have a 5yo Daughter from a previous relationship and my very soon to me wife treats her amazing she sees her dad and loves that she has two mommy's (except when she's in trouble) lol well we are getting married June 24th and want to start trying right after. I have been tracking my ovaries for a couple months and looks like I may be ovulating day after the wedding. Her cousin has agrred to be the donor and we were planning on just doing everything at home ourselves. has anyone tried this and succeeded? any and all advice wanted :)