Tonight, I am at a loss for words or action. I know that relationships change over time and that most don't stay as "hot & heavy" as they are in the beginning. For the past year I have had to initiate ALL of the BD! I have brought up to my fiancé that this has led me to feel as though he's not as attracted to me as he once was & that this has led to me not feeling as sexy or as beautiful as I once did. He denies that this is the case. I know that "life happens" and that I can't expect him to be in the mood ALL the time. It's gotten to the point where I feel like a teenage boy bugging his girlfriend for sons action! I try not to let this get to me, but there are days that I can't help it 😔 I try to approach the prospect of making love several different ways from straight forward to playfully bringing it up to having fun with him by enticing him in different ways... Sometimes it works & other times, nada. I even wrote him a letter last week telling him how I feel when I attempt to initiate being intimate and nothing happens & how I NEED his reassurance from time to time that he is still asattracted to me as he says he is whether it be by him telling me, or preferably showing me.