Period sex? BJ? **UPDATE.**

Okay sooo I've been talking to this guy (very rare for me, I prefer females) and we kinda found our way to sex talk and I've been super craving summa dat ya feel. But I couldn't get to him the days before I started my period and so now Im wondering what period sex would be like if I'm not too heavy since I'll be seeing him on the last day or day before last of my period. I don't think I can control myself lol so idk should I give it a shot or will it be too messy?

Also considering my first bj ever. I've only seen my first penis bc he sent me pics lol so I've never even touched one. Any tips for that bc I have only the vaguest idea of what to do lmao and he's pretty big so idek if it'll fit in my tiny ass mouth lmao (I'm a seasoned female pleaser so I enjoy giving oral and could probably incorporate some of my tongue tricks with him? maybe giving head to either gender is similar in a way?? idk??)

I'm in my 20s btw lol I'm just really inexperienced with guys.

**update** it was incredibly hard, but we abstained from period sex. I was actually a little unsure about even touching him, but turns out he's actually a really sweet and understanding person and we were surprisingly really comfortable with each other so he talked me into at least trying a bj and taught me what to do. Didnt do too much of that yet but he taught me how to use my hands and.. wow. It feels really fucking awesome to make someone cum that much. lmao. I didn't think I'd ever enjoy being with a guy that much especially if I wasn't on the receiving end of things. but here I am. all in my feelings now. that's great 🙃 Thanks for all your advice!! lol i will definitely use some of those tips in the future 😏 Now that I feel a little more comfortable.