So lately it has felt like everyone around me is either getting married or having kids.. or both... here I am, with a guy for almost 2 years ( ok that doesn't seem that long) an he keeps telling me about how hr can't afford kids, or we are not married an having kids out of wedlock is a sin, which I totally get his reasoning... but I would like to have a child before I'm 30, but it isn't looking very promising.. I feel like he avoids wanting to talk about any of that stuff basically our future.... has anyone else dealt with this kind of stuf?! Just maybe. Little advice gah!