Is going out healthy for a relationship?

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Hey everyone I just have a question , so I’m 24 and my fiancé is 43 and I’m young of course and I don’t go out as much but my sister called me one day and asked me to go out with her and I told her I was gonna talk with my fiancé first , so I asked him about it and I don’t think he was pretty happy about it but he said that GOING OUT CAUSE PROBLEMS IN RELATIONSHIPS, sooo I wanted to get some answers so I can handle this in a better way FEEL FREE TO COMMENT 😘😘😘

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🙄🙄🙄 what does he want to do? Sit at a house all day and do nothing? 
Go out with your sister and have fun girl

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I would have just said, I’m going out with my sister tonight lol. If there is trust and he isn’t insecure what’s the big deal?

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red flag, controlling behavior. having time to yourself and going out and having fun is HEALTHY. whats unhealthy is having a controlling partner that doesnt want you to see your SISTER.

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You shouldn’t be asking your fiancé for permission to go out with your sister. That’s ridiculous. 
He is trying to control you and it’s not acceptable. Oh need to have a life outside of your relationship otherwise you’re going to end up being miserable.

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I don’t think age differences in a relationship is relevant except for instances like this- where your friends are partying, travelling, wasting money ect. And he’s probably done all of that already. Remind him that your family and friends are still important and you want to have some fun. Go out and have a killer girls night 🥂🍸🎀

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You are SO gonna regret that when you’re older 😖

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Huge red flag

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He’s probably worried about you getting attention from guys that are way younger than him...?

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that's a bit strange.. my husband doesnt like going out but has never stopped or guilted me not to..

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There are times like this where you will see the difference in your ages...
It doesn’t necessarily ruin relationships.. but any action that you do or your so does that makes each other uncomfortable is pushing boundaries and causing  unnecessary strain....
Was he invited? Maybe ask him to go as well?

Is going out healthy for a relationship?

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