Am I being petty?

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Currently 16 weeks pregnant with our second child. OH goes out every single weekend, without fail. It’s currently 5 am and I’m crying myself to sleep because he’s decided to go to yet another house party. 
He thinks it’s totally normal because he’d never cheat, itsjust his friends but it’s not the point. He isn’t here. He knows I hate it and he does it anyway. 
I am so sick of begging him to change. We’ve been together 16 years and I’m terrified to leave, I don’t a life without him but staying is killing me. I’m miserable all the time. He takes me for granted and just does as he pleases then comes home and makes out like I’m being crazy. 
Any advice?

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I can’t believe you’ve been with him for this long?! I would’ve left a long time ago...

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By you staying with him, you might just be letting him get in the way of the next man who your meant to spend the rest of your life with. Don’t rob yourself of happiness. He obviously doesn’t respect you enough to come home at a decent time. And isn’t considerate of your feelings

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No, you definitely aren’t being petty but as for advice 🤷🏻‍♀️ if you’ve been together for 16 years and he hasn’t changed even after begging him, he’s really never going to. Don’t stay just because you’re scared to be on your own. I’m sure you’ll have support from friends and family and even if you don’t, you can do it. Don’t make any rash decisions but consider other options besides staying home crying yourself to sleep being alone ❤️

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What does OH stand for ?

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People normally tease me about having a new man because I just don't put up with BS. This is some BS that would have made me quit. Life is way too short for me to waste it on foolishness. It seems like you all are not on the same page. You have matured and you are ready for something serious. He is clearly still stuck at 18 years old. You do not deserve that. Please remember that you are stronger than you think.

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why the fuck won't he grow up and be a family man he has helped create... sorry he isn't a college kid any more...

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Why have another kid with someone who's an absentee father if that bothers you?? Seems highly unlikely he'll change after all these years. You need to decide what's most important to you.

Am I being petty?

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