fuck buddy while I'm taken?

So I already know I'm gonna get bashed for this one that's why I'm posting anonymously....please try not to be harsh....so long story short I love my man very much but our sex life straight sucks... I have a much higher sex drive than him and he would rather jack off most of the time to get off quick he doesn't care for sex. When we do have sex it ends up being more frustrating. he doesn't enjoy head, he doesn't like when I jack him off, he doesn't like doggy style and usually only likes missionary. I usally get wetter than a ocean and shock most men but with him since sex is so boring and hes not into anything i get bored and get dry which hurts so he ends up giving up instead of trying to get me wet again and continuing. I told him I want to be kinky I want him to pound me and fuck all around the house and let out moans try diff positions and blow his load all over my face and body but he's not into that... I have a old fuck buddy that I have had thee best most orgasmic sex with he makes me squirt over and over and we can go for hours he isn't shy he licks up all my cum and he loves head and loves my kinky ways and his cock feels so good he truly knows how to do things to me that no one has been able to do before. he knows I have a man and doesn't want to mess anything up but we miss each other sexually sooo badly. as much as I don't want to cheat I just want to be satisfied and have that amazing sex again I'm just so sexually frustersted I talked to my man but no changes. my main question is has anyone been happy with their SO and just cheated w a fuck buddy to get what they need but stayed happily in their relationship? I wish he would be okay with me getting it elsewhere since he doesn't have a high sex drive but no I wouldn't be okay with him fucking another girl but he doesn't need that because he doesn't enjoy or want sex anyways. I also don't Belive that we should break up just because the sex isn't the best but if I got pleased elsewhere I wouldn't bug him for it and he could happily jack off wihout me getting mad that he did that instead of fuck me what do you think? note I understand cheating is never good but my dildo , vibrator and him are just not cutting it anymore I just wanna be pleased by someone that appreciates me sexually